Do you know what kills me?
When you're friends become friends, or when you become friends with one of your friends, friends...
Like Literally this is doomed from the start!
There is a reason why that friend is their friend or why you aren't that person's friend.
Maybe I'm just a weirdo..but it's just annoying to me.
I've actually been in a situation where I adopted my best friend's close friend. I had class with her and she was pretty quiet. At first she was really cool. We hung out and I got to know her better. I then found out she dated my bestie, which threw me off but then again it made sense as to why she was suddenly always around. When I asked my best friend he just said it was a breif summer thing. I thought nothing more of it. I guess it wasn't until my BFF and i got into a huge argument and I realized why I didn't want to get close to her in the first place. She just stopped talking to me. When we all hung out after my BFF and I made up, she still wasn't talking to me. When I asked her if there was a problem she totally ignored me, like I wasn't standing 3 feet away from her..
After consulting my best, he told me she didn't like some of the things I said or whatever. Why she couldn't just say that to me, I had no clue. Needless to say, we stopped talking..But I soon found out that she still liked my BFF and because he was mad at me, she felt the need to follow. After hearing that, I was basically like eff it, I rather just have my friends and yu just have yours.
Moral of the story..Everyone is not meant to be friends..
SO DON'T PUSH IT.
xx sd
The wording in this beginning throws me off. Its kind of hard to follow which friend belongs to whom. Personally, I think the post would have a much stronger effect if you opened with your personal story then moved on to explain that you don't think a friend's friend shouldn't be have to become your friend. Also, I feel like you could have gone into more detail about this idea. You could explain that you think friendships should just happen naturally and why you believe that. This general idea is her, but its not fully and explicitly stated.
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